Before you join, recognize the fact that a stint in the military is not civilian employment. It’s not just like having a regular job. You can’t just up and quit anytime you want to (See article, Getting Out of the Military). You can go to jail just for being late for work.

Can you get out of the military at any time?

If you went through all the motions of signing up for a military service only to decide it is not right for you and you have NOT been to the Military Entrance Processing Station (MEPS) and have NOT taken an Oath of Enlistment, you are free to quit the process at any time.

Can you ask to leave the military?

There is no way to simply quit the military once you are on active duty. You are contractually, and perhaps morally, obligated to see your commitment through. However, you could be discharged from duty early if you are physically or psychologically unable to perform your duties.

What’s the best way to get out of the military?

Explain (without whining or bitching) that you have found that you are unsuited to military service and that you’d like to end your commitment before your incompatibility causes any significant difficulties for you or your unit.

What happens when you get out of the military?

Military discharge is given to you when you’re released from your term of service. In the United States, the type of discharge can affect everything from personnel records to retirement benefits. Discharges are rated based on the individual’s service record.

What to do if you refuse to join the military?

If you refuse, the military could then court martial you – it’s not a likely response, but it is possible. There is a less risky way to get out of delayed entry: Request release from the program via an entry-level separation discharge.

Can you get out of the military early for college?

Early Release for Education: If you are within 90 days of your expected release date, you can request an honorable early discharge if you intend to pursue an educational path. Getting out of the military early for college is only available within 90 days of the normal release date, and in some cases is limited to certain types of education only.