Should you be “worried” about college now, as a (incoming) high school freshman? No, you should definitely not be worried. Do not let college loom over your high school career like some big, angry, dark cloud. And definitely do not let getting into college color all of your high school decisions.

Is crying everyday in college normal?

It is very normal. It’s a big change, leaving home, going to some strange place, leaving all that is familiar. It can be exciting and overwhelming and scary all at the same time. I cried when I first went off to college.

What do college freshmen struggle with?

Many students have their first experimentation with alcohol, marijuana and even sex/relationships during their freshman year of college and this can all present challenges to their overall sense of self-worth and adjustment. It’s important that parents and friends check in on their college freshmen often.

Should I worry about college in 9th grade?

You definitely don’t need to start your college search as an incoming ninth grader, and you certainly don’t need to worry about it—that’s not the best route since you will be learning, growing, and changing a lot over the next four years.

What grade do you have to start worrying about college?

There are over 1,000 different colleges and universities in the U.S. and almost all offer financial aid and some need-based, merit-based scholarships and grants, or both. You really don’t need to be planning anything at this point – 9th grade is a better starting point for planning for college.

When did my son leave for his freshman year of college?

The summer passed quickly, as they tend to, and near the end of August he left for his freshman year of college. This was the point where my wife and I felt we could relax. Well, as much as any parent can ever relax.

What are the most common freshman year mistakes?

But it’s also true that the freshman year of college often is fraught with mistakes that lead to high rates of stress, physical and mental problems, poor academic performance and financial messes. Being aware of the potential pitfalls is key to navigating a successful first year.

Where did my son decide to go to college?

At that point he didn’t know where, or even if, he was going to college. But a few weeks later, to our relief, he finally decided that he would attend a state college, three hours away. The summer passed quickly, as they tend to, and near the end of August he left for his freshman year of college.

What happened after my son dropped out of college?

A couple of months after school started, my son discovered how poorly he was doing in his classes and wanted to leave school. We convinced him to stay the course, and maybe consider actually attending class and studying. I imagine there have been many a freshman over the years who have received the same advice.