He does not tell us why he left school and his fraternity, only that he does not have friends there. He says he is ashamed of his father’s job, which is manager of a fast food store. He calls us names and says f___ you and all women are b____ and so on.

How old is my 19 year old son?

My soon to be 19 year old son has a real bad attitude. He is very bright but is lazy. He got thrown out of Sixth form college. He has been so rude to his dad and myself. We have thrown him out of our home so many times.

What should I do if my 19 year old is living at home?

Either way, you need to be working — either volunteer or get for pay — 15 hours a week in order to continue to live here.” Remember, if there is no consequence for not following your expectations, your teen is unlikely to change his behaviors — it’s too easy and too comfortable where he is.

Can a 19 year old live at home without a job?

Spend some time thinking about your expectations, and what the consequences will be for not following those expectations. Choose consequences you will adhere to — it will not be effective if you tell your child he can’t live in your home without a job and he is still there, jobless, 3 months later.

How old is my 20 year old son?

My son is 20 years old. He left a prestigious college in his 5th semester and came home. He gets angry easily, breaks things and tears his clothes, but does not hit anyone. He does not tell us why he left school and his fraternity, only that he does not have friends there.

Is it normal for a 20 year old to go to college?

It’s normal in most societies to expect a 20 year old man to pull his own weight. Many expect a 20 yr old to be out of the house by now (except, perhaps, during summer breaks if attending university).

Is there anything wrong with my 19 year old son?

From what you’ve written here, there’s nothing wrong with him. The reason he’s fine around others is that his problem is with his relationship with you. He wants to be independent, and not your little boy forever, so he’s rebelling. Learn about letting go here, and do your best to encourage his independence. My only son is 19 years old.

Is the father of my 20 year old son abusive?

His father is not abusive in any way, and has never raised a hand to him. His father is very kind, with no questions asked. Does not advise him or communicate on issues with him and has a poor listening habit. What am I to do?